My Chastity Journal:Time Away

3/9/18:  It’s been a while since my last post and I have a day off so I thought it would be a good time for an update. Except for several short periods of being unlocked for a variety of reasons all of which have been described previously, I’ve been locked continuously since February 1,

I’ve been traveling away from Princess since March 1. I described the scheme we developed to re-lock me once I cleared airport security and to release me for the flight home, in my Fear of Flying post. My living quarters here don’t provide much opportunity for Face Time teasing; so, we’ve only been able to do it one time so far. I don’t know if it’s the lack of sexual interaction, or just time spent locked, but it seems that my cage has become something less of a sex object and more like just something I wear all the time, like my wrist watch. Initially, I was leaking constantly; now it requires some form of stimulation.

Yesterday, Princess told me she has been asked to travel for a couple of weeks to do some similar work to what I’m doing here at a different location. As a result, she won’t be home when I arrive back unlocked. I had ordered a couple of new Chinese cages a few weeks ago along with a variety of testicle rings and a set of anti-pull-out spikes. Princess advised me that these had arrived yesterday. Once I’m home I’ll ask if she would like me to try on the various configurations and lock myself or if she would prefer I just re-lock myself in the current device and wait for her to return. Either way, the keys will go into the lock-box, with a random combination blindly set, photographed and texted to her with the original deleted.

I’ve also come to accept that this chastity journey, if it’s going to work for both of us as a couple, needs ultimately to be about what she wants. I’m confident that Princess loves me as much as I do her and I trust her not to abuse the power I’ve given her over my sex. Although I let her know about things I find arousing, whether she chooses to bring any of those things into our lovemaking is solely her decision.